The Golden Games

Author : Geoffrey

Geoffrey,  I want to acknowledge and let you know I appreciate the contribution you made at the very start in securing Vancouver as the venue for the 2010 Olympics Games.  You must be proud of how your little acorn has grown into a mighty oak.

All the best,

Patrick Hunt

Hi Patrick,

I am sorry for the delay in responding. I already miss the energy from the “Golden Winter Games”.

When Jack Poole asked me why I was volunteering back in Feb 2003, my answer was “because I would like my grand daughter Alexandra to see an Olympic Games in Vancouver.”  That has been the most amazing thing about all of this last two weeks, seeing Alexandra and all of the kids enjoy it.

Going to the gold medal women’s hockey game was also amazing, and seeing the venues and all of the people enjoying it. The Olympic caldron flaming against the beautiful north shore was breathtaking; being part of the celebration was almost heart stopping. And yes, Sidney Crosby’s golden goal topped it all of for me.

When I think back to the small group of volunteers toiling away in 2003 and the amazing team of speakers I coached in Prague, who won the games for Canada, little did I know the impact we all would make. And with today’s 25,000 blue coated volunteers (I affectionately call them C smurf’s ~ my wife Brigitte is one) and the Olympic athletes, these games have made a world wide impact.

I am very happy to have played a small part for my adoptive home and am very proud to call myself Canadian.

All the best, Geoffrey

See what John Furlong,  President & CEO of the Vancouver Winter Olympics 2010 has to say about Geoffrey:

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It’s Not What You Say

Author : Geoffrey

It’s not what you say, but how you say it…

One of the most often mis-quoted and mis-used pieces of research is  Professor Mehrabian’s communication model, especially when applied to public speaking.

•      7% of meaning is in the words that are spoken.
•      38% of meaning is paralinguistic (the way that the words are said).
•      55% of meaning is in non-verbal communications.

Who is Professor Albert Mehrabian’?

Professor Albert Mehrabian a leading pioneer the understanding of communications since the 1960’s. He received his Ph.D. from Clark University and in l964 commenced an extended career of teaching and research at the University of California, Los Angeles. He currently devotes his time to research, writing, and consulting as Professor Emeritus of Psychology, UCLA.

Aside from his many and various other fascinating works, Mehrabian established this classic statistic for the effectiveness of spoken communications:
•      7% of meaning is in the words that are spoken.
•      38% of meaning is paralinguistic (the way that the words are said).
•      55% of meaning is in non-verbal communications.

Non-verbal clues include:
•      Body language (e.g., arms crossed, standing, sitting, relaxed, tense),
•      Emotion of the sender and receiver (e.g., yelling, speaking provocatively, enthusiastic)
•      Other connections between the people (e.g., friends, enemies, professional similarities and or differences, personal similarities or differences, age similarities or differences, philosophical similarities or differences, attitudes, expectations).

Mehrabian’s model above has become one of the most widely referenced statistics in communications.  However, it is arguably on occasions applied in an overly simplistic or indiscriminate manner.

The model is particularly useful in illustrating the importance of considering factors other than words alone when trying to convey (as the speaker) or interpret (as the listener) meaning – but care needs to be taken when considering the context of the communication.

Style, expression, tone, facial expression and non-verbal communications were in Mehrabian’s experiments did indeed account for 93% of the meaning inferred by the people in the study. But this is not a general rule that you can transfer to any or even all communications situation- (it was not applied to public speaking – but to personal communications in a face to face situation).

The understanding of how to convey (when speaking) and interpret (when listening) meaning is will always be essential for effective communication, management and relationships.  But using the Mehrabian percentages is not a reliable model to overlay onto all communications scenarios.

For example, Mehrabian’s research involved spoken communications. Transferring the model indiscriminately to written , public speaking or telephone communications is not reliable, except to say that without the opportunity for visual signs, there is likely to be even more potential for confused understanding and inferred meanings.

A fairer way of transferring Mehrabian’s findings to modern written (memo, email etc) and telephone communications is simply to say that greater care needs to be taken in the use of language and expression, because the visual channel does not exist. It is not correct to assume that by removing a particular channel, and then so the effectiveness of the communication reduces in line with the classically represented Mehrabian percentages. It is not that simple.

It is fair to say that email and other written communications are limited to conveying words alone. The way that the words are said cannot be conveyed, and facial expression cannot be conveyed at all. Mehrabian provides us with a reference point as to why written communications, particularly quick, reduced emails and memos, so often result in confusion or cause offense, but his model should not be taken to mean that all written communications are inevitably weak or floored.

If this were the case there would be no need for written contracts, deeds, legal documents, public notices, and all other manner of written communications, which, given their purpose, when well-written convey 100% of the intended meaning perfectly adequately using written words alone. When we enter a public bar and the sign on the wall says ‘NO SMOKING’ we know full well what it means. We may not know how the bar owner feels about having to bar his customers from smoking, but in terms of the purpose of the communication, and the meaning necessary to be conveyed, the written word alone is fine for this situation, regardless of Mehrabian’s model.

Telephone communication can convey words and the way that the words are said, but no facial expression.  Mehrabian’s model provides clues as to why telephone communications are less successful and reliable for sensitive or emotional issues, but the model cannot be extended to say, for instance, that without the visual channel the meaning can only be a maximum of 45% complete.

Nor does Mehrabian’s model say that telephone communications are no good for, say, phoning home to ask for the address of the local video store. For this type of communication, and for this intended exchange of information and meaning, the telephone is perfectly adequate, and actually a whole lot more cost-effective and efficient than driving all the way home just to ask the question and receive the answer face to face.

The Mehrabian statistics certainly also suggest that typical video-conferencing communications are not so reliable as genuine face-to-face communications, because of the intermittent transfer of images, which is of course incapable of conveying accurate non-verbal signals, but again it is not sensible to transfer directly the percentage effectiveness shown and so often quoted from the model. Video conferencing offers massive benefits for modern organization development and cooperation. Be aware of its vulnerabilities, and use it wherever it’s appropriate, because it’s a great system.

Mehrabian’s model is a seminal piece of work, and it’s amazingly helpful in explaining the importance of careful and appropriate communications. Like any model, care must be exercised when transferring it to different situations. Use the basic findings and principles as a guide and an example – don’t transfer the percentages, or make direct assumptions about degrees of effectiveness, to each and every communication situation.
All the best Geoffrey
More information about Dr Albert Mehrabian and his fascinating work see his website.

http://www.kaaj.com/psych/

Note: for more information go to

http://www1.chapman.edu/comm/comm/faculty/thobbs/com401/nonverb.html

Professor Albert Mehrabian, published in his 1971 book, Silent Messages.  Another source, (Chapman University  “What is Non-Verbal Communication”) is listed as Albert Mehrabian  [Nonverbal Communication  (Chicago: Aldine-Atherton, 1972)

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Happy New Year

Author : Geoffrey

Getting ready for 2010

I have a tradition of reviewing the past year and preparing for the New Year. I use these questions to bring clarity, understanding and for creating what I want in the next year.  Over a glass of wine Brigitte and I look at the past year, so that we can let go of it and express our gratitude for it. Then we talk about what we want to create and attract into our lives for the coming year.

On this day last year – New Years Eve (Dec 31st 08), heavy with sadness, I was boarding a plane for the UK to be at my Dad’s funeral. He passed away on Christmas day. We talked on the flight that day, using our questions, and as I look back it ended up as an amazing year. It was full of insights, and getting closer with new and old friends and new opportunities, from a sad start to an amazing ending.

You can stay on the surface with these questions or go deeper. “Just how far down the rabbit hole do you want to go?” Well, this is up to you, and I recommend that you ask and answer these questions with gratitude in your heart. Here the questions I use as a starting point, and I refer back to them when I get stuck or rambling on:

Questions to celebrate and recognize the ending of a year…

What were my greatest lessons?
What were my three greatest insights?
What were my three most memorable moments?
What have I attracted into my life this year that I didn’t have last year?
How did I have a positive and profound impact on someone last year?
To whom do I need to offer forgiveness (this includes me) and for what?
What am I willing to leave behind?
How was this year better than year before?

Questions for creating what you want in 2010…

Who am I “becoming” this year?
What strengths/skills have I gained for an outstanding year?
What new skills would I like to develop – personally, professionally?
Which relationships do I want to take to the next level next year?
How would I like to “give back” to my community this coming year?
What would I like to experience “more off” this coming year?
How and what would I like to celebrate, one year from now?

This New Years eve I will celebrate a new year with gratitude and love in my heart.

I wish you a very happy, rich and full year,

Geoffrey

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The Power of Public Speaking

Author : Geoffrey

Do You Want Business Growth?

Then it’s time to add public speaking to your marketing efforts in 2010!

Don’t put it off any longer….   Public speaking is a great way to attract more clients, generate unlimited leads, and explode your business growth effortlessly, especially in today’s changing economy…. because you have to be visible to sell. Notice, what you think of a good public speaker, do you admire them, do you think of them as an expert? If you are like most people you do!

Over the past eight years, I’ve discovered how powerful public speaking is in growing clients business and careers. In fact, I encourage them to speak at least once a month and they get clients every time they speak.

I speak several times a month and get clients every time I speak. I believe it is the powerful marketing strategy their is and that is why I use it. WHY? Because it works! I can show you how you can do it!

Looking For A Job?

Public speaking is a great way to attract more job opportunities, generate them effortlessly, especially in today’s changing economy…. because you have to be visible to get a job. Speak about what you know at your local business chapter, you will be amazed at what happens.

I’ve discovered the power of public speaking has in growing careers. In fact, when people see you speak well they make a judgment about you; they believe you are a leader, self confident and powerful. And then the want to hire you or if you have a job promote you.

The power of public speaking as marketing tool is unsurpassed, I believe it is the most powerful marketing strategy I can use. Because it works! I’ll show you how you can do it too.  I look forward to helping you attract more of what you want in 2010.

I wish you a happy, healthy and wealthy New Year!

All the best,

Geoffrey

PS Please send a link to this page to anyone who may be interested in marketing in a way that works every time! Also get your 101 Speaking tips at www.thespeakersalchemist.com

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